Cynicism is always in fashion. I've been told that I seem cynical and judgmental; I'm not. I'm vocal about my opinions, yes, but my opinions aren't any worse than the next person's. I'm a very firm believer in the goodness of people. I'm a very firm believer in the subjective nature of life. If I dislike someone, I remind myself that there are people that love that person.
I project my ideas of perfection onto other people, which is bad. I don't see any goodness in myself, even if though there's plenty. I...I'm working on building confidence in myself so I can engender it in others.